If you do not know, ask the person you are seeing to give you some time to figure things out.
Do not lay around, flirt, or give them signs that you don't feel well. Do not let anyone pressure you into doing anything you do not feel is right.6.
However, there is also a dark phase that opens up sometimes in relationships.
In this phase, one person may hurt, scare, or demean the person he/she is dating on a frequent basis.
and loveisespect.org, The National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline, tweens involved in relationships with the opposite sex experience significant rates of dating abuse and violence.