If you’re over the age of 40 and have ever said, “But I’m told I look five years younger than my age”, then you’re not immune to it yourself. And nobody has more choices than a 28-year-old woman. So if a woman finds it more appealing to just step into that world — to jump from the prolonged adolescence of the late 20’s into full-fledged settled-down womanhood — that could make sense.
ALSO READ: Things you should know about dating an older man Once upon a time, when the relationship God's were smiling at me, I dated a 40 year old man. He wore expensive ankle length boots that no man in my village or within my circles could afford. He ensured that my arm is safely tucked in his arm when we walked. His feelings and lovey dovey were at an all time zero. It therefore goes without saying that the fear of losing a love interest never occupies his mind.
His perfume was masculine and tended to spread its fragrance in our short term relationship. Though divorced and never married, he had peculiar habits that are only common with a man that age.
Because he’s been in the workforce for oh, about four years. But still, I’m a big proponent of life experience and wisdom. So even if this young man’s interest in you is completely pure, even if he wants to have a real relationship with you, you guys are most likely doomed. But presuming he does, if I were you, Carla, I’d probably have some fun. Maybe not all of them, and maybe not this particular guy, but most guys in their 20s think an older woman is easier and hornier than women their own age.
Because he may be a great communicator, mature for his age, and relationship minded, but he’s also, y’know, a BABY. Go in with your eyes open and appreciate the experience for what it is — a dalliance with the youthful exuberance of your past. “What do guys in their twenties really expect and/or want when contacting an older woman? That’s what I thought when I was a schmucky 20 something, and so did my friends.
It broke my heart to know that my 40 year old man doesn't fancy babies.