So the third piece of Christian dating advice I would give to men is this: Be as realistic as possible when it comes to the boxes you need her to check.
And whatever you expect of her you must also expect of yourself.
If you are one of them, address this issue before pursuing God’s daughter.
Otherwise you will probably be single forever because you will only pursue Christian women who won’t like you back. Don’t Turn Her Purity Into Your Sacred Cow Another double standard I often see amongst Christian men is in the area of “purity.” I don’t have the space in this article to list all the problems I have with the American church’s view of sexual purity.
So all I will say here is that many men have made an idol of a woman’s sexual purity. Of course this is not an excuse for men or women to do what they want and then have no consequences in life.
But what are you looking for when you ask her those questions about her past?
You are probably asking her to be what you feel is missing about you.
Attraction is important, but attraction is a fickle thing when it comes to men and women.