But he also understands that if I'm not working I'm spending as much time as I can with my son — Carter is my first priority.
When we do meet up, it's usually for a nice dinner, and at the end he'll either give me cash — usually around $500 or $600 — or he'll deposit money directly into a separate checking account I have just for this purpose.
Most people assume that everyone who's a sugar baby has sex with their clients, but that's not true.
You can set whatever ground rules you'd like, decide who you see, and how often you want to "work" with them.
And he was older — in his late 60s, while I'm in my 30s. O and I got together for dinner a few times, and he was a complete gentleman — never pressuring me for sexual favors and always respecting my boundaries.