But even so, it’s worth taking the time to really identify where you stand on the range of issues spoken about, and to think about other areas where you have red lines a partner must stick to.
Let your needs and preferences be known, as well as how much wiggle room for experimentation exists within them.
Money is generally taken to be poison in matters of the heart, but money (for better or for worse; granted usually worse) is an inescapable part of human interactions whether you’re with someone or not.
Other things can wait until they actually need to be raised.
It’s not necessary, for instance, to state categorically that you will not tolerate being shouted at until/unless you find yourself in that situation.
Setting basic boundaries on how much each other’s family interaction impacts the relationship will prevent a lot of emergency restoration later.