I have a nervous personality, so I need someone who can tell me to relax.
I’m very social and I love entertaining, so I need someone who can hold their own and have a conversation without me around.
You’ll probably notice that there are common descriptors on the list.
The top qualities that you liked about these people are what you should look for in your next relationship. This doesn’t mean you have to pull one out and wear it.
If you don’t let anyone in, then you won’t get hurt, right?
However, if you don’t let anyone in, you probably won’t end up finding the one.
When I was in my mid-20s, I wanted a partner who drove a nice car and could afford to take me to a fancy restaurant.