BDSM is always about consent and trust, the keyword being consent.
BDSM has endless possibilities from dressing up to role play, to bondage and control.
How do you meet people that are interested in BDSM and want to make real connections?
Just remember that BDSM is about consent between both parties, and there should always be respect for your opinion and thoughts.
Remember that BDSM is about fun and fantasy, expirementing and trying new things.
On a bdsm dating site the most important thing you can do is tell people about HOW you are feeling and what you WANT.
Communication and trust are the most important thing in BDSM, so you want to make sure your potential partners are interested in the same things that you are.
I am Jamaican and he is a New Zealander, we got married in beautiful Jamaica and day I will always cherish.