She says that since she's been with her partner in a monogamous relationship for 11 years, they've definitely tried a lot of things during that time, with fisting being one of them. Most mentions of fisting in pop culture seem to be geared toward people making anal fisting jokes that are centered "either around male homosexuality or around a man purchasing the services of a sex worker to be fisted," Shakti tells
If one does something stupid during the date, the chances of its survival could fade away or disappear immediately.
While someone is excited that they have met someone new or are actually moving on to a new and exciting part of their lifetime, one has to make sure that they do not go too far ahead of themselves.
Despite this, Shakti says she likes the feeling of "fullness" and pressure when she's being penetrated, and nothing else she's tried has been able to give her a comparable feeling.
Shakti feels "our hands are our best sex toys, yet they are often overlooked completely or seen as reserved exclusively for foreplay," and if you don't have a penis, the idea of being able to insert an entire part of your body in a partner (or vice versa) can be incredibly intimate and erotic.
Shakti says that people who haven't fisted before tend to want to yank their fist out of their partner's body right after they've orgasmed, but it's super startling and very painful for the person you've just fisted.