After Alex split from Anne Wojcicki, a Silicon Valley CEO, who he dated for a few months, and the rumors about Jennifer and Drake finally ran their course, the two sealed the deal.
"They have been dating for a few weeks," a source told .
Despite the fact that everyone views relationship milestones differently, Ms Shaw says there are common "social cues" that may signal if the relationship is moving forward."Concrete things" like meeting the family, seeing their home and talking about the future are examples, Ms Shaw says, but not to live by.
That's because, as Mr Seidler explains, some people don't need certain things to feel secure: "Someone might want to meet the family, the other might not count that as important."Ms Shaw says people also often look for "casual references"."It may be that you are visiting someone's kids and one of you will say, ' I really want to have kids someday'," she says."But when you don't have enough of those [casual references], you need to have the formal talk."Before putting the hard word on bae about the future, make sure it's for the right reasons, Ms Shaw says."Know yourself well — is it possible you are feeling a sense of urgency because of your own history?
it's not offering the security you want."Mr Seidler says being "honest and blunt" is the best way to get on the same page."People are really good about skirting around the issue and that just leads to more harm," he says."Get to the core of it.