I've been on the site off and on for years and never had a problem.
Women write me, I write them, we exchanged numbers, and I go on dates.
The sad part is I was defrauded by this guy and he wasn't who he said he was at all, I have been so embarrassed to talk about this to anyone. Anyway I was able to recover my funds using Global Elite Recovery and their skilled investigators, you can google them if you have been a victim of love fraud.
I'm sympathetic to all these people having a bad experience on Match, but I can't relate to any of it.
Some men have very unreasonable expectations for themselves and think just because they have a ** they can call the shots. I canceled my account and decided to leave it behind me.