Note: After fending off large numbers of men pretending to be women, I am now asking for immediate voice proof that you are genuinely female.
I'm posting this as a cringeingly shy person who has realised, fairly late in life, that she prefers women.
I have had only one experience but it has changed me, probably forever.
In recent times I've been writing some short stories which help me, being painfully frank, to get off.
It's a poor substitute for the real thing, I fully realise, but there you go.
I find it hard to take the lead in any person-to-person situation and so I'm resigned to probably never having the experience again - I'm married and this must NEVER come out.