(5) Create an actual or clearly predictable adverse impact on discipline, authority, morale, or the ability of the command to accomplish its mission.” You can contact NCIS or you can go to the command.
If you don't know how to reach your boyfriends commander, contact the Base Personnel officer on the base where your boyfriend is stationed.
Give the officer the name of your boyfriend and the officer will give you the contact information you will need to contact the CO.
(3) Involve, or appear to involve, the improper use of rank or position for personal gain.
(4) Are, or are perceived to be, exploitative or coercive in nature.
Read this portion from the AR: “Relationships between Soldiers of different rank are prohibited if they— (1) Compromise, or appear to compromise, the integrity of supervisory authority or the chain of command.